This is a common dilemma that most men face... "To pay or not to pay, that is the question."
Here are some of the problems that "paying" creates:
1. It sets you up as the one who is "pursuing" the woman, which symbolically gives away your power to her.
2. It can be expensive.
3. It usually causes women to play even "harder to get".
4. It triggers all kinds of "courtship" behaviors. Like her making you prove yourself, waiting to have sex, etc.
5. The places you'll be going to "pay" are often not the best places to actually get to know another human being. Movies, fancy dinners, etc., aren't natural environments and they don't lead to people "being themselves".
So, what's the alternative?
Well, the FIRST thing you should do is CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK ABOUT "DATING"... and "paying".
Most guys just naturally assume that if they're "taking a girl out" that they need to take her to a show or movie, a nice dinner, etc.
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